HOW TO EASILY SOFTEN BEARD STUBBLE

Mo Parker

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Beard stubble is a fine balance for a man. In one instance, the stubble is meant to showcase manliness and masculinity and on the other hand, it’s actually a little bit high maintenance and girls tend to say that it irritates their skin.

In the life of a man, we can’t have it both ways. So, when it comes down to getting rid of your 5 o’clock shadow daily or finding a way to soften it, you’re more than likely going to go with the latter.

In this post, we’ll talk about how to soften beard stubble in a way that keeps you looking great and feeling tough. You’ll also get answers to some of the top questions that people have when it comes to beard stubble and what they should do moving forward.

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WHAT IS A STUBBLE BEARD?

A guy’s stubble beard is the equivalent of a girl wearing her pajamas to her college class. Both acts like it took no effort, but it’s more orchestrated than it appears. 

A stubble beard is just what it sounds like – a beard that is actually just stubble. Many refer to it as the 5 o’clock shadow or joke that this is what they look like after they’ve been trying to grow out a beard for the past year. 

HOW LONG SHOULD A STUBBLE BEARD BE?

While there isn’t a perfect length, for a beard to be considered stubble it should be around 1/8th of an inch in length. It’s not much at all but it’s noticeable. It can also be longer too but that gives you some sort of idea of what you’re dealing with. 

HOW CAN I MAKE MY BEARD STUBBLE?

Have a long beard but tired of all the work associated with it? Why not change your beard to stubble? All you have to do is trim off your beard and then use clippers to shave the rest of the beard down. It’s a fast and simple process that will give you that beard stubble that you’ve always wanted. 

HOW DO YOU MAINTAIN A 3-DAY STUBBLE?

Believe it or not, having beard stubble takes work, too. Because as each day passes, that beard stubble is going to want to grow. You’ll have to be certain that you’re trimming it down in a way to keep it looking natural.

There are also tips to keep in mind that you can shape your beard stubble in a way that can help your features stand out, too. Take a look at the shape of your face and try to get a good picture about how your stubble should look before starting in on the process. 

WHAT BEARD LENGTH IS MOST ATTRACTIVE?

According to the female population, stubble is the most attractive. In fact, it ranked #1 among female voters. If that doesn’t tell you something, I don’t know what does! 

WHY DOES BEARD STUBBLE FEEL SHARP?

Not just sharp, but sometimes really, really sharp. How in the world are those tiny pieces of facial hair inflicting that much pain? It seriously makes no sense at all. AT ALL.

But, it’s the daily truth of men all over the world. The fact of the matter is that stubble feels sharp because it’s all different lengths and it’s super short meaning that it’s not going to be nice and bendable like the hair on top of your head. 

EASY TIPS FOR MAKING YOUR BEARD STUBBLE FEEL SOFTER

If you’re not a man that is wanting to put a ton of time or effort into making your beard stubble softer, there are a couple quick tips that you can do to see if they work.

GROW IT OUT LONGER

Pretty simple, right? Although if you grow out your beard stubble into a beard, then you’re going to definitely be open to maintenance at that point in time because growing and maintaining a beard can take a lot of work. 

USE A STUBBLE SOFTENING PAD

Yes, this is a “thing”. A stubble softening pad is pretty much like it sounds. You use it on your stubble daily and it should ultimately make that area feel softer fast. 

DOES COCONUT OIL SOFTEN BEARD STUBBLE?

Any type of oil is going to do a good job at softening the stubble to the best of its ability. Olive oil is something that a lot of people use because it’s cheaper and easier to find but coconut oil is perfectly fine as well.

As long as you’re trying out oils, they should all have the same end result. Just remember that none of these oils should be irritating your skin so if you come across one that does, you need to wash off asap. 

CAN YOU PUT HAIR CONDITIONER ON YOUR BEARD?

Yes, you can. Since the ingredients that are in the hair conditioner are meant to soften hair, this should work for your beard and beard stubble as well.

As with anything, you’re going to need to give it upwards of a week or two to start seeing any type of results so be patient with the process during this time. 

HOW DO YOU MOISTURIZE BEARD STUBBLE?

You actually need to concentrate on moisturizing the skin beneath the beard stubble first. Since your beard hair is growing out of your facial area, taking care of that and making it a priority is key. 

Start by exfoliating or at bare minimum cleaning your face well at least 2-3 times per week. When you’re working on cleaning the pores and other areas of your face, these will then in turn help to soften up the beard stubble as well. 

Now that you know a few of the main questions that men tend to have in regard to their beard stubble, let’s dive into some options that can help you easily soften it right up. 

HOW TO SOFTEN BEARD STUBBLE

In a world full of beards, it’s important to keep that area of your face as fresh, clean, and trimmed up and soft as possible. If not, you just might notice that you’re actually irritating your own skin as well. 

WASH YOUR BEARD TO HELP SOFTEN IT

Yes, it’s true. Simply washing your beard or beard stubble on a consistent basis can actually help you soften your stubble. It’s the little things, right? Luckily this simple softening act takes minimal effort on your part but can make an overall huge difference. 

This tidbit might pertain a bit more to a longer beard at times, rather than a stubble but it’s still important enough to point out. A lot of things can get trapped in that area because of the hair so cleaning it is key. 

WHAT DO YOU USE TO WASH YOUR BEARD?

You’ll want to use a good facial hair shampoo that you can easily order online. Make certain that it’s something that is gentle for the skin so that it doesn’t irritate the area and cause you to break out.

There are a ton of products on the market for this sort of thing so there’s a chance that you’re going to feel overwhelmed and worried.

Just take your time and read the directions. Keep in mind your level of commitment as well because that is important before buying anything that you’re going to have to do daily.

Washing your face one time per day is one thing but having a face wash that requires 3 times daily is another. Don’t set yourself up for failure before you even start. 

Keep in mind that every time you wash your beard stubble, it will keep that area soft and clean. 

CONDITIONING YOUR BEARD STUBBLE

Conditioner isn’t just for the hair on your head. Investing in a good conditioner is key because water tends to do damage to hair over time, no matter how long it is. As soon as you’re done washing the stubble, go ahead and add a little conditioner as well. 

This will make it smell great, keep it strong, and allow for that softness to come through, too. You might be tempted to use the conditioner that is sitting in your shower, and that may work to an extent but be certain to do your research and find other beard conditioners that give you a little bit more option. 

SHORT BEARD STUBBLE? TRY OIL

If your stubble is pretty short, you may not even have enough hair on your face to wash or condition it. If that’s the case, no worries. Just try a little bit of oil on your hair instead. Oils are great for being a natural skin solution that won’t irritate your skin either. 

HOW TO APPLY BEARD OIL TO STUBBLE

Choose the oil that you want to use and remember that less is probably more. A few drops of oil will go a long way when you’re talking about using it on beard stubble instead of a full-blown beard. 

Start by putting the oil drops on your hands and then adding to your face in a circular motion, covering all of our beard stubble. (You’ll notice right away that the skin will feel fresh and smart to smell really good as well.) 

Since the oil is natural, you don’t have to worry about it having a negative effect on your skin. It should actually feel refreshing and light instead of heavy and greasy like other lotion options. (and if the oil is burning your skin for some reason, rise it off and make a mental note to note use it again)

WHEN IS THE BEST TIME TO APPLY BEARD OIL?

While you can literally apply it anytime, the best time is typically when you’ve done something that opens up the pores on your face. Adding after you’re getting out of the shower is a great idea, or even after the sauna or working out as well. 

That way the oils will really soak into the hair fibers, making them softer and less rough to the touch. 

GIVE BEARD BALM A TRY

This method is probably pretty unlikely if you have really sort beard stubble but if you’re wanting to grow it out a bit longer or try something new, beard balm can be a great solution that you can easily use. Just know that a little bit of beard balm will definitely go a lot way. 

Most beard balms are used as a “paste” to help keep random beard hairs in place, but you can also use it on your stubble as well. It will typically be a thicker texture so be certain that you’re rubbing it in well when applying it so that you don’t have glops to worry about. 

WHAT HOME REMEDY CAN I USE TO MAKE MY BEARD SOFT?

More than likely, you’re going to hear a lot of home remedies out there on how to soften our beard stubble. Just like anything in the world, some are good, and some are not. It’s going to be up to you to decide what is going to work in your favor and what isn’t. 

For this decision to be made, you’re going to have to go through some trial and error to get it figured out. Below you’ll find some home remedies on how to soften beard stubble that may or may not work for you. 

USE OLIVE OIL

This is something that many men will do when they have a beard, but it just might be an option for beard stubble as well. Basically, all you have to do is use a little bit of olive oil and massage it into your stubble. Leave it overnight and wash it off in the morning.

This is a simple home remedy that you can do as much or as little as you’d like since olive oil shouldn’t irritate your skin at all during the process. 

USE ARGAN OIL

Argan oil acts as a moisturizer as well as taking care of a variety of skin conditions. Argan oil is found in shampoos and other hair care products. The oil is found in many men’s facial and hair products.

Related: Grow An Awesome Beard With Argan Oil

SIMPLE TIPS FOR DEALING WITH BEARD STUBBLE

You’re here because you’re wanting to figure out a way to manage your beard stubble and also make it softer in the process. Luckily for you, beard stubble isn’t as stubborn as it feels. 

And since beard stubble literally seems to just appear overnight, this is one topic that you need to figure out quickly so that you can address it and move forward. 

Many of the products and solutions listed above are great but there are still a few other tips that you can do at home before heading to the store to buy products.

TRIM YOUR BEARD STUBBLE OFTEN

Believe it or not, keeping your beard stubble trimmed will help to keep it soft. And this simple act takes maybe 60 seconds per day. It’s not hard to do and it will keep your stubble looking sharp, clean, and ready for the day.

Using scissors is always an option but more than likely, your stubble is too short for that. Clippers can be a great way to trim all of it quickly and easily. 

USE A BEARD BRUSH

Even though you might not have a lot of hair on your face, using a beard brush can be a great solution. It’s an easy way to comb out anything that may be on your face and also giving your hair a chance to soften during the process. 

IS STUBBLE BETTER THAN A BEARD?

This is totally an opinion question. Those who have beards will say that beards are better and those who have stubble will say that there’s is better as well. But if you’re asking for an overall opinion, stubble tends to be a bit better for a few different reasons.

BEARD STUBBLE IS LESS MAINTENANCE

This is true. It’s shorter which means that it’s less to have to cut, less to have to clean, and less to have to worry about getting your mouth when you’re eating your food or even trying to grab a kiss from your loved one. 

STUBBLE WILL SHOW OFF YOUR FEATURES BETTER

A man’s jawline is important. And if you’re wanting to show off your jawline, you’re going to want to have stubble instead of a full beard.

Full beards are great and are often used by men to conceal parts of their face or to give them a lumberjack look. But when it comes to accenting features. beard stubble wins time and time again. 

STUBBLE TENDS TO BE MORE MANAGEABLE

If you’re a busy guy, you might be able to appreciate the ease of having stubble. This is because the hair is so short, there really isn’t a ton of styling or details to have to worry about.

You can literally wake up and head out the door. But when you have a beard, there’s a good chance that you’re going to have to style it and comb it and make it look presentable which takes up time and energy. 

DOES STUBBLE MAKE YOU LOOK THINNER?

Typically, yes. It does. This is because it’s a thinner hair line that again, will accent your features and not hide them. Beard stubble can also give you a younger appearance as well if you’re going from beard stubble from a beard. 

HOW FAST DOES BEARD STUBBLE GROW?

It feels like it grows overnight and while it does to an extent, you’ll find that the 3-5 day window time span is when the stubble is going to start showing more.

Once your stubble grows, you’re going to notice that it’s pretty rough and tough at that point in time. You can easily start on any of the processes above to make the stubble softer. 

HOW DO YOU GROW 10-DAY STUBBLE?

Over the course of 10 days, right? But it’s not as simple as that. Since your stubble will have 10 days to grow, you’re going to have to do a tad bit of maintenance to it along the way.

You need to decide just how long you’re going to let your stubble because the time span of 10 days will put your facial hair right into that awkward stage that will have it a little bit too long to really be looking quite right.

So, over the course of the 10 days, you’re going to want to trim it down at least once, but in a very subtle way so that you don’t take away a ton of the growth. You can also treat it like a beard in the way of how you’re going to wash it and moisturize it to make it soft. 

Make certain during this time that you don’t forget about trimming your neck area as well. This is one area that guys tend to overlook and suddenly before they realize it, they have the werewolf look going on and it throws everyone off. 

IS HEAVY STUBBLE ATTRACTIVE?

Did you know that heavy stubble was a thing? It’s more than regular stubble but really, it’s basically just having a lot of stubble on your face and keeping it clean and presentable. 

You’ll see some guys that have a nice subtle stubble and others that tend to have more. And while some guys are lucky in their genetics to grow stubble that way, it is something that you can tame and shape on your own.

The bigger the stubble area that you’re going to try to grow on your face, the more stubble hair that you’re going to have as well. 

FINAL THOUGHTS ON HOW TO SOFTEN BEARD STUBBLE

Beard stubble is an extremely tough part of your hair. It’s meant to be a bit rough, hence the name “stubble”. But when it comes to softening it, there are easy home remedies and products that you can use.

Keep in mind that you need to give your beard time to adjust to these changes. It might take weeks or even months for you to notice a drastic change in how it looks and feels. 

It’s also important to know that you can mix and match any and all of the options above on how to soften your beard stubble. There isn’t one solution for this issue – there are many. Use what works best for you and see if it makes an overall difference. 

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Meet Mo Parker, the visionary founder of The Beard Brotherz. Mo's passion for redefining modern masculinity led him to create a platform that celebrates the diverse interests and journeys of men today. With a commitment to authenticity and inclusivity, Mo's entrepreneurial spirit and dedication shine through every facet of The Beard Brotherz. From grooming and fashion to tech and wellness, Mo's multifaceted approach mirrors the platform's essence, offering a welcoming community for all to embrace their unique paths in the modern world of manhood.